Wednesday, May 27, 2009

Blood Donation: epic fail

Only I didn't get to make a difference and this deeply bothers me.


Let me give you a little background. I have an awesome blood type: O negative.
The American Red Cross loves me. Everyone loves me; or at least they should. I am a universal donor. Should a blood transfusion be needed, potentially any person can receive type O negative blood regardless of their blood type. Amazing!

Blood donation is one of the greatest gifts you could ever give. If you have never given you should really look into it, get over your fear of needles and just do it. Be selfless, give about an hour of your time, and help save a life. Blood, platelets, and/or plasma are used for accident victims, kidney/liver/heart transplants, premature babies, bone marrow transplants, open heart surgeries, cancer/leukemia treatments, sickle cell anemia even severe burns.
An accident victim could require 4-100 units of blood; your donation only covers 1 unit.
A severe burn patient could require 8 units of plasma, again your donation only covers 1 unit.
A premature baby could require 1-4 units while in intensive care.

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Yesterday was my day to donate! I was all ready to go. I even bring Boy Child, despite his protest. Blood makes his "tummy feel funny" but I want him to see how important this is. Maybe someday we'll be able to save a life together.
So I get to the blood drive that was set up in my town, sign in, fill out the paper work and get my rockin' name tag (see above).
Once my name was called I went into the closed off booth to answer the repetitive questions and have my hemoglobin checked.
Hemoglobin is a protein carried by the red blood cells that contains iron.
Medical term for low hemoglobin? Anemia
In order to donate you must have a hemoglobin level of 13.8-17.2 for males and 12.1-15.1 for females.
I have the little finger prick done, blood sample put in the machine and we wait....

...and wait...

LLL

LLL? Seriously!?

The guy looks at me and says "Wow! Its not even registering, that's low"

I sat there completely stunned. I take a 65mg iron supplement everyday on top of a multivitamin due to my absorption issues with gastric bypass and also because I went the vegetarian route back in December.

How could this be?

I have to sign a form saying I've been deferred; please wait 12 weeks before you try again. Here are some dietary advisements, get healthy and have a great day.

I felt like I was just told my dog died. (I don't have a dog but whatever)

I'm torn. I gave up meat for many reasons but I'm also very pro-active about blood donation. I'm even an organ donor, well not yet obviously!
If me consuming meat again is going to save a life then is it worth it? Am I risking my health right now? I'm obviously not doing something right. I thought I was consuming enough foods that would keep me healthy; keep us healthy. If my levels are low Boy Child's levels must be also.

Consume an animal to keep us healthy and help save a life every 56 - 112 days, depending if I'm donating whole blood or double red cells (which they want these from me too) or continue on this road, which has yet to be determined but I don't think it looks promising.

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Do your part, go donate and help save lives!

I'm off to "get healthy!"





Wednesday, May 13, 2009

Monday, May 11, 2009

Mother's Day. Really?

Mother's Day has come and gone. I called my mother, wished her a happy day, she cried, said I love you.
I ended the conversation with talk to you later; bye.

We do not have that classic mother/daughter relationship; never have.
Does it bother me? Sure.
Will it change? No.

For so many years my Dad received the Happy Mother's Day recognition. The homemade cards, cakes, and balloons. He picked up her slack because someone needed to. Those big manly hands had such a gentle touch. He was the boo boo kisser and the best person to put band aids on. He was perfect at using a curling iron to put those little curls in my hair for special occasions. Never a burn. (I can't even do that)
He was the greatest bedtime story teller. Stories never came from a book; they were from deep within his heart. I only wish I could tell my own son those amazing stories; instead I'm stuck with books.
From teaching me to drive, putting makeup on (who knew), to teaching me how to shoot a gun, pitch a tent, paddle a canoe and even braiding my Barbie's hair, he was. the. man.

Happy Mother's Day!


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I think I have found my new favorite song. Seriously.
Or maybe it is the video that has made me fall in love with it even more.
I hope you enjoy this as much as I do :-)